No matter how you slice it, gifting is a roll of the dice.ย
Youโre sending โfreeโ product to an influencer, and hoping thereโs going to be some kind of ROI.ย
But gifting is notoriously unpredictable. Creators might:ย
- Not answer your outreach at all
- Ghost after getting the product
- Not even receive the product (or it arrives damaged)
- Not post the content you like
- Not feel beholden to your timelines
And whether you choose barter deals or no-strings attached, youโre still gambling. Youโre just swapping the stakes: relationship against ROI.ย
So what do you do?ย
The gifting gamble
Gifting is always a gamble. And while marketers might opt for barter deals as more of a sure bet, what theyโre gambling instead is the relationship with their creator.ย
Weโve got a problem with gifting.ย
Well, a lot of problems.ย
The first is that an email titled โWeโd love to gift youโ can mean two totally opposite things:ย
- Barter deal: โWe send you product, you post.โ It's transactional. Itโs explicit. Everyone knows what the expectations are.ย
- No-strings attached: ย โWe send you product, do what you want.โ The expectation is either non-existent or implicit. The brand wants them to post, and in an ideal world, they do. But creators are still told they donโt have to (pinky swear).ย
The second problem is that marketers have expectations โ both on themselves and on their creators. It doesnโt matter that 90% of influencer marketing is directly dependent on the actions of others. Marketers are still responsible for making the number in the spreadsheet go up.ย
That means marketers want predictability. They want sure bets. So, they love barter deals.ย
The third problem is that creators hate barter deals. Whether itโs because theyโve been burned in the past, or they just feel like itโs unfair, influencers have cooled off on accepting gifted products in return for content.ย
So that leaves us with:
- Gifting being wildly unpredictable
- Marketers being held accountable for said unpredictability
- Marketers opting for barter deals to maintain some controlย
- Marketers holding creators to sometimes unfair expectations
- Creators pushing back, refusing, or ghosting gifting campaigns

Itโs a vicious cycle.
The uncomfortable truth about barter deals and sure bets
Barter deals feel more certain for sure. After all, a creator has agreed to post.ย
And youโve got metrics to hit and a deadline to meet. You get more say in the deliverables, and you can actually measure progress.ย
But creators hate barter deals.ย
According to marketers โ creators they outreach only accept barter deals a paltry 36% of the time.ย
And thatโs even if you get a response. 7 out of 10 marketers said they get significantly fewer responses with barter deals compared to no-strings attached offers.ย
When creators do respond โ they push back on barter deals.ย

That said โ barter deals do offer some posting consistency.ย
Kinda.ย
65% of marketers said that creators post more consistently for barter deals. But when we asked the marketers that use barter deals how often those collabs actually ended with a post โ it was a coin toss (43.8% for no-strings attached vs. 50% for barter deals).ย

So my question is: If a creator responds less often, pushes back harder, and only posts half the time โ is a barter deal worth starting a contentious relationship with a creator?
Letโs crunch some numbers.ย
Using the above averages, letโs say youโre gifting a $50 product and outreaching 100 creators as a benchmark.ย
On paper, barter deals do work out to a slightly better ROI โ just on cost-to-posted content alone, despite the lower response rate. Even though no-strings-attached deals end up with fewer posts overall, youโre sending more products, so a similar amount of influencers end up posting.ย
As we say in French โ itโs kif-kif. It all works out about the same. This is going to depend on your product price point, of course. If you gift a higher ticket item, that tiny difference isnโt so tiny.ย
But if your price point is on the lower side, is $16.52 worth gambling a creator relationship?
Getting barter deals right
Creators canโt feed themselves or pay their rent from product alone. Yet, some marketers offer barter deals with no other incentive โ despite asking for several deliverables and long-term usage rights.ย
Oh, and without a contract.ย
But hereโs the thing โ creators push back against barter deals when they feel theyโre getting taken advantage of. And itโs not rocket science โ why would you do something for free when others are paying you for it?
And Iโm not saying theyโll never accept barter deals โ nor am I saying you shouldnโt do them.ย
What I am saying is that you need to pick the right tool for the job โ or in this case, the right gifting method for your creator, brand, product, and situation.ย
Barter deals are good when:ย
- You have tight deadlines and need a little more certainty about what youโre getting back
- You are offering a product with a high price point, increasing the overall risk
- Youโre working with a creator that already knows and loves your brand
And there is a right way to do barter deals in a way that feels fair to both you and your influencer.
Foster barter deals where you already have brand affinity:ย
Barter with happy customers that have small followings. They already know and love you, so they'd be overjoyed to post in return for product they'd have purchased anyway.ย
Not only is the relationship going to start off more positively, but the content is likely to be much more authentic. Barter deals are a great way to turn your happy customer into a full-on brand advocate.ย
Sweeten the deal and make it feel fair:ย
Weโre currently surveying creators, and the vast majority of brand offers creators get are gifting. So if you're going to join the throng of brands vying for their attention, youโll need to make sure youโre offering something thatโs worth their time.ย
Anna Jฤdrzejewska mentions that sometimes the offer doesnโt fit the demand โ which is where a lot of brands are getting barter deals wrong.ย

For barter deals, you'll want to offer things that justify what you're asking for. Obviously, for big-ticket items, the gift might be enough. But if your products are at a lower price point, it doesn't hurt to offer some other things as well โ especially if youโre asking for multiple deliverables and usage rights.
This could be:
- An affiliate code or link so they can at least make commissions
- A free gift or unexpected product they can try
- Even something as simple as a handwritten note can warm a creator towards you and your brand
Temper your expectations with influencers who don't already know (and love) you:ย
So again โ you canโt offer $20 worth of product to an influencer whoโs never heard of you, and expect deliverables that they normally get paid for. Thatโs not going to work.ย
So heavily consider what you ask of someone:
- A story mention goes over a lot easier than a Reel โ much less several Reels
- If long-term partnership is on the table, make that known. An influencer is going to be a lot sweeter on a deal that might end up in a paid offer if they know itโs a possibility from the beginning.ย
- Really ask yourself if youโve offered enough for usage rights. A creator with a small following might be okay to give up usage rights for a certain amount of time, but larger creators arenโt going to go for it.ย
Make your follow-ups about the productโฏโ not the post:
When you follow up with a creator, ask about the product. Give them time to have formed an opinion on it. Ask if theyโve had a chance to try it out, and ask for genuine feedback.ย
What weโre doing here is specifically not putting pressure on your influencer. No one likes feeling pressured. Instead, make your follow-ups about the product and whether your creator likes it.ย
That means each follow-up needs to count. Robert Polonski of Deeper says that itโs sometimes like pulling teeth โ especially when each follow up feels so risky.ย

We already know that gifting deals have the highest ghosting rates of any other kind of collaboration. Donโt give your influencer a reason to ghost before your collab has even gotten off the ground. And if they do happen to ghost before you get a post โ at least you get feedback, so itโs not a complete loss.ย
No-strings attached is the play for relationship building
Hereโs the thing: youโre going in with no contract, and no monetary payment. So if youโre looking to start a relationship off on the right foot, no-strings attached is the way. But like, real no-strings attached. Not the kind where you send a brief alongside just in case and ask them to post later.ย
Make gifting about the creator
The best way to approach no-strings attached deals is to make it about your creator โ not your product or brand.ย
Think of it like a first date. Youโd ghost someone who only talked about themselves and didnโt ask questions about you, right? Itโs the same situation here.ย
This is your opportunity to start a real relationship with your creator:
- Get feedback on your products and how they work for your influencer
- Gauge their enthusiasm for your products and brand
- See if the product would be a good fit for their audience too
- Brainstorm ideas together
This is your opportunity to build brand affinity. If a creator ends up liking your product and having a good experience with your brand, theyโre going to be so much sweeter on posting content afterwards.ย
And it only works if youโre being intentional about gifting to that creator. Alice Arruda says itโs about making your creator feel valued.ย

Much like our follow-ups, it means making the gifting about the creator, and not about you.
- Whyis your product perfect for this creator, specifically?
- How does your product fit into their lives?
- What problem are you solving for them?
Itโs basically the same thing youโd ask about a customer. And thatโs the point.ย
โAn influencer you work with should be the spitting image of your ideal customer โ or at least one of your customer profiles.ย
No-strings attached deals make for more authentic content
When a relationship feels transactional, thereโs obligation. Obligation immediately colors someoneโs perception of a gift. That means what they say is going to be less of their honest feelings, and more of your talking points.ย
The result? According to Victor Wiลniowski, stiff inauthentic content, or a dreaded ghost.ย

Itโs cool if thatโs what you want โ but if thatโs the case, buy an ad. Youโre not working with influencers for them to regurgitate your marketing slogan, youโre working with them because an audience relates to them, and trusts their opinions.ย
It's obvious when a creator isn't being completely genuine about their experience. Itโs your job to make sure that experience is stellar.ย
No-strings attached is a practice of staying zen
No-strings attached only works if there actually arenโt expectations attached.
Are creators going to ghost you? Yes.ย
Are they going to post less-than-ideal content? Yes.ย
Are you maybe going to get zero ROI on some of those gifted products? Yes.ย
Itโs going to happen. And that means you need to be okay with that.ย
You are more than welcome to hope they post content โ but do it quietly. In your corner. Donโt pressure them.ย
- You canโt control the content they post.ย
- You canโt control when they post it.ย
- You canโt control how many posts they make.ย
โ And you canโt presume to. Itโs no-strings attached after all.ย
According to Athira Aravind, the second you start asking for things in return, the gift doesnโt really feel like a gift anymore.ย

And no one likes a gift that comes with expectations. Especially if you werenโt honest about that from the start.ย
No-strings attached isnโt about generating immediate revenue โ itโs about building relationships and testing the waters.ย
No-strings attached deals are great for:ย
- Testing new niches, markets, creators, and customer cohorts
- Building brand awareness and affinity
- Opening the door to a deeper relationship with a creator
Thereโs going to be loss. It happens. But as long as you let go of the inner control freak (weโve all got one. Mineโs named Maurice), itโs going to be okay.ย
Where the chips fall
Gifting is tough. Thereโs a ton of work involved, logistics to think of, and when creators arenโt even responding to your emails โ itโs easy to want collabs that feel the most certain.ย
But no matter what, youโre making a gamble. Youโre either gambling your ROI or youโre gambling creator relationships. The thing that feels more expensive to you is going to determine what gifting style you opt for.ย
But as a general rule:
Barter deals are great when you:
- Already have brand equity
- Can make the deal feel fair to the influencer
- Can offer paths to revenue (affiliate codes, future collaboration, etc.)
No-strings attached deals are great when you:
- Want to build relationships with influencers
- Can temper your expectations and let go of control
- Can be more flexible with your timelines (and all the rest)
And if you need more โ check out the Modash Gifting Playbook for a full tutorial on gifting.ย
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