Top 20 American Productivity Affiliates on Instagram (July 2026)

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11/07/2026
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1. charlene

United States

☁️ romanticizing my twenties 🧸 routines, productivity, fitness, corporate 🍯 los angeles & seattle 💌 collab.charlene@gmail.com

@charlenehao
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Followers
44.9k
Fake followers
31.64%
Engagement rate
1.93%
Average Reel plays
6.6k
Audience gender
female
84.6%
male
15.4%
Top performing Reels
  1. don’t listen to the world. this was the best decision of my life ❤️ #marriage #youngwife #youngmarriage #wedding #marriedlife #husbandwife #christian #christianwomen #christianliving
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  2. 4 am morning routine as a corporate girl in her 20's ⭐️ #workfromhome #corporate #morningroutine #morningvlog #4am @oldnavy @newbalance @lululemon @prana @saltair @isopure @bmw . . . morning routine productive morning routine corporate morning routine work from home corporate
    18 825
  3. come with me to the office as a 24 year old actuary ✨ hope everyone has an AMAZING week !! #cometoworkwithme #officevlog #corporatelife #worklife #corporatejob #9to5 #9to5job #corporatejob #corporategirl #actuary #actuarialscience #office #officelife #officewear #asmr #asmrvlog . . . corporate job office vlog come to work with me in office vlog *not pictured: me working from home before driving into the office 😅
    15 716
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Audience location by country
United States
39.92%
Canada
4.53%
Australia
4.12%
Brazil
4.12%
Mexico
2.88%
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2. Landon Bytheway | AI Productivity

United States

👋🏼 Sharing AI & Tech I wish I knew about earlier 👨🏻‍💻 Former Education CEO & Tech CMO 🎧 Currently building @theunhustle ✉️ landon@rakugomedia.com

@landonbtw
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Followers
211.6k
Fake followers
15.43%
Engagement rate
1.4%
Average Reel plays
38.9k
Audience gender
female
11.7%
male
88.3%
Top performing Reels
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Audience location by country
United States
22.99%
India
9.51%
Brazil
4.8%
Indonesia
4.68%
United Kingdom
2.74%
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3. Tristan | Tech Creator + Professional Product Photographer

United States

📸 Professional Product Photographer ⌨️ Tech, desk setups, + productivity 🎥 YouTube + Twitch 👇 Products + reviews

@captain.sterling
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Followers
20.3k
Fake followers
20.35%
Engagement rate
2.13%
Average Reel plays
12k
Audience gender
female
26.72%
male
73.28%
Top performing Reels
  1. Let’s unbox and type on the Lofree Hyzen! 😮‍💨 Been spending some time with it and honestly this thing surprised me. It’s an TMR (HE/MX) board that actually looks good, which isn’t always the case. It’s got tons of features packed in too. There’s a layer lock switch that flips your number row into function keys, wireless connectivity, and some really fun lighting effects. I’m usually not big on RGB, but the way these keycaps diffuse the light is super clean. And yeah it’s got that foamy thock I’m always a sucker for. Design-wise, it feels way more “custom” than you’d expect from a prebuilt. Sharp, intentional, and just nice to look at. Price is solid too for everything you’re getting. It’s available now at @lofree.co and I’ve got a link in my bio if you wanted to support the channel. Big thanks to them for sending this one out, been really enjoying diving into HE boards and this is easily one of my favorite prebuilts so far. I also love the flexibility of being able to use HE or MX switches. It creates a lot of room for customization. I will say after some use I’ve enjoyed using the wrist rest with the board for longer work sessions since the front height/typing angle is quite high.
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  2. Setup Sunday featuring GMK Orenji. 🫶🏻 I can’t say thank you enough to everyone for bringing this project to life. It has made my year and then some. 🙏🏼
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  3. Diving into The Hollow and grinding for materials in style.👌🏼 These are the Hollow keycaps from @tutkeys__ and the novelties are a ton of fun. The set I got came with a massive Bangboo keycap. 😳
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Audience location by country
United States
39.41%
Indonesia
6.07%
Canada
3.99%
Philippines
3.3%
Brazil
3.1%
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4. Flourish Planner

United States

✍🏼🗓️🤎📱🍵 Mid-Year Planners Coming Soon

@flourishplanner_
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Followers
84k
Fake followers
21.81%
Engagement rate
1.37%
Average Reel plays
25.5k
Audience gender
female
80.05%
male
19.95%
Top performing Reels
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Audience location by country
United States
43.03%
India
4.21%
Canada
3.96%
United Kingdom
3.77%
Philippines
3.35%
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5. jess

your fav productivity girl 💌 ashley@suntalentagency.com

@jessiesvisualdiary
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Followers
74.8k
Fake followers
28.17%
Engagement rate
4.11%
Average Reel plays
17.3k
Audience gender
female
86.17%
male
13.83%
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Audience location by country
United States
11.93%
Brazil
7.82%
India
7.01%
Indonesia
4.56%
Italy
3.68%
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6. Ellie

United States

student life, productivity & science NYC📍| @columbiagsas 💌 collabs.ellie@gmail.com

@ellharve
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Followers
116.5k
Fake followers
31.95%
Engagement rate
5.97%
Average Reel plays
36.8k
Audience gender
female
56.76%
male
43.24%
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Audience location by country
United States
41.88%
Mexico
4.5%
United Kingdom
4.01%
France
3.18%
Italy
3%
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7. sophie ✿ bullet journal inspiration

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@themingostudio
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Followers
4.6k
Fake followers
-
Engagement rate
4.41%
Average Reel plays
-
Audience gender
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8. Jaz Rittenhouse

United States

Productivity, tech, lifestyle! 🥰 Email: rittenhouseart@gmail.com Richmond, VA Links and Finds 👇🏽

@rittenhouseart
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Followers
25.9k
Fake followers
15.1%
Engagement rate
1.01%
Average Reel plays
4.7k
Audience gender
female
73.18%
male
26.82%
Top performing Reels
  1. GIVEAWAY ALERT! Update: CLOSED! 🛍️ Where to buy: Right in my bio under “shop my desk” or comment “Caderno” and I’ll send you the 🔗 in DM 😘 Make sure you check your dm requests! ————— Winners selected: Giveaway Closed This giveaway was in no way sponsored, endorsed, or administered by, or associated with, Instagram. #stationery #stationeryaddict #stationerylover #stationeryshop #stationeryfinds #stationeryhaul #cutestationery #backtoschoolgiveaway #backtoschoolshopping #officesupplies #wfhsetup #studyaesthetic #studygram #workfromhome #studymotivation #studynotes
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  2. On this episode: Take notes and with me 📝 . Besides collecting stationery and tech I am also an Interior Designer. I use all of my stationery for floor plan or design submissions when working with my clients. If you are looking for a workspace remodel or ideas on that awkward space in your house or office, I’m your girl 💪🏾 . 🛒 Brands in this video: Highlighters- @stabilousa Notebook- @createanotebook Metal mechanical pencil- @u_brands Color Fan Deck- @benjaminmoore ——— #studyaesthetic #studygram #stationeryaddict #workspace #workspacegoals #homeoffice #interiordesign #desksetup #deskdecor #deskmakeover #stationerydesign #studyorganization #stationery #workspacedesign #stationeryfinds #stationerysupplies #cutestationery #studymotivation #realestate
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  3. On this episode: Plan the busiest day with me 😮‍💨 . (I have no idea why the video uploaded with the music on FULL BLAST I didn’t save it like that 🙄) . Today consisted of a lot of projects and communication which can be overwhelming and exhausting. This is how I keep everything together and productive 💪🏾 If you usually write down and forget your list, then keep the list or planner open in a high traffic area where you will continue to look at it. 👏🏽 Save this video for later when you need motivation or send this to someone who needs stationery motivation. ——— #stationery #stationeryaddict #planwithme #planneraddict #newmonthnewgoals #newmonth #studyaesthetic #studymotivation #productivity #productivitytips #plannertips #officespace #studyorganization #studygram #stationerylovers #stationeryhaul #dayinthelife #todolist #backtoschool #agenda
    126 722
Engagement rate benchmark
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Audience location by country
United States
84.1%
United Kingdom
2.83%
Germany
1.53%
Brazil
1.31%
Australia
1.31%
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9. LIA ⭐️

United States

columbia nursing student 🩺 💭 uni life, solo diaries, & productivity 📍23, nyc 💌 liasinquiries@gmail.com

@hiimlialol
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Followers
42.9k
Fake followers
31.61%
Engagement rate
1.31%
Average Reel plays
5k
Audience gender
female
84.39%
male
15.61%
Top performing Reels
  1. cozy apps for students 🧸🕯️🎧 the app store is my second pinterest- there are so many apps to browse and developers to discover! these apps are all so cozy and make studying feel a little easier :) - focus apps - planning/organization - self care have you tried any of these apps before? #studygram #studymotivation #studyapp #ipadstudy #digitalstudy #prettynotes #productivity #productivitytips #digitalplanning #planwithme #dailyroutine #pinterestinspired #pinterest
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  2. apps to LEVEL UP in 2025! 🧸🌱🤍 happy thursday friends! i’m now starting to get ready for 2025 and everything feels exciting and new :) here are some apps to help you feel prepared for the new year~ - planners/trackers - personal/self care - study apps - unwind/relax - exercise + movement i hope you guys like this post!! have a lovely day~ #studywithme studymotivation #studyapp #ipadstudy #digitalstudy #prettynotes #productivity #productivitytips #digitalplanning #planwithme #dailyroutine #pinterestinspired #pinterest #nyc
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  3. APPS MASTERLIST FOR STUDENTS | 👩‍💻💭📚 
hello friends! here’s an app masterlist for my fellow students because scrolling through the app store is one of my favorite things to do 🤭 
what’s included:
👩‍💻 study apps
⏰ productivity
☑️ trackers
🗓️ planning + to-do
🧖‍♀️ self care
🕯️ cozy games 
hope you guys find an app to add to your library! #studywithme #studygram #studyapp #productivity #productivitytips #studentlife #collegediaries #selfcaretips #pinterest #pinterestinspired
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Engagement rate benchmark
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Audience location by country
United States
15.22%
Brazil
9.39%
Philippines
5.75%
Indonesia
5.3%
Mexico
4.31%
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10. Sarah

United States

🪷 all for the aesthetics 🍵 college lifestyle, journal, productivity 💫 based in seattle and la 💌 dm / email for collabs

@bonjourbullets
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Followers
36.2k
Fake followers
20.86%
Engagement rate
5.85%
Average Reel plays
12.7k
Audience gender
female
94.24%
male
5.76%
Top performing Reels
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Audience location by country
United States
29.9%
United Kingdom
6.25%
Indonesia
4.88%
Canada
3.99%
Brazil
3.75%

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11. Kira Jones

United States

CT • NYC taking my morning routine very seriously 🤎 lifestyle, wellness, productivity founder @cactiwellness hello@cactiwellness.com

@kirajones
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Followers
86.6k
Fake followers
29.49%
Engagement rate
2.61%
Average Reel plays
8.7k
Audience gender
female
91.13%
male
8.87%
Top performing Reels
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Audience location by country
United States
37.16%
Brazil
5.96%
United Kingdom
5.13%
Canada
3.74%
Russia
3.17%
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12. Eddie Lou

United States

are you living the life you want? psychology @harvard mindset | productivity | fulfillment eddie@weaive.app

@eddie_the_lou
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Followers
145.3k
Fake followers
18.69%
Engagement rate
2.59%
Average Reel plays
69k
Audience gender
female
41.9%
male
58.1%
Top performing Reels
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Audience location by country
United States
45.39%
India
5.58%
Canada
3.63%
United Kingdom
2.62%
Indonesia
2.11%
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13. Taylor Ives | UGC Creator

United States

Strategic ads that make consumers press buy Brand marketing & productivity simplified 👩🏼‍💻 Need UGC? ✉️Taylor@vampnetwork.com California | portfolio ↓

@ugcwtaylor
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Followers
18.9k
Fake followers
10.04%
Engagement rate
1.05%
Average Reel plays
5.6k
Audience gender
female
92.23%
male
7.77%
Top performing Reels
  1. Cinematic mode will be your new bff ✨📲 Now that I told you my secret… get filming 👀 ✉️ugcwithtaylorr@gmail.com #camerahacks #camerasettings #contentcreator
    8 756
  2. The sun said girl give me ONE sec stop complaining ✨ As a full time content creator yes my mood unfortunately depends on the weather that day 😂 What can I say I need perfect shots for my clients ok??? #ugc #contentcreator
    1 882
  3. How I get brand deals in: Beauty 💄 Home 🛋️ Tech 📱 Fashion 👗 Food 🍽️ Without wasting time looking for email contacts that are never going to respond to me. If you’re like me and you know how to make content, you know how to sell and you know how to make your customers happy, pitching doesn’t need to be so hard. Just sign up for @onbento - it’s free, gives you all the PR contacts you need and you save SO much time while landing more deals. 💸💸
    1 725
Engagement rate benchmark
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Audience location by country
United States
53.52%
United Kingdom
7.72%
Australia
7.72%
Canada
7.2%
Germany
2.4%
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14. Mia Yilin

United States

stanford university lifestyle, productivity & tech ⛅️ tiktok: 770k+, youtube: 550k+ 💌 miayilinbiz@gmail.com @lingoxofficial

@mia_yilin_
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Followers
410.5k
Fake followers
19.08%
Engagement rate
4.58%
Average Reel plays
379.5k
Audience gender
female
62.55%
male
37.45%
Top performing Reels
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Audience location by country
India
26.48%
United States
23.91%
Nigeria
8.66%
Malaysia
3.85%
South Africa
3.4%
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15. Rose 🍵🌱

United States

🎓 cozy productivity | homebody | soft lifestyle ✨ more on YT & TikTok 💌 rose@thedigitaldept.com

@_rosetanaka
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Followers
55.7k
Fake followers
13.68%
Engagement rate
2.94%
Average Reel plays
36k
Audience gender
female
94.59%
male
5.41%
Top performing Reels
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Audience location by country
United States
67.45%
United Kingdom
5.65%
Mexico
4.29%
Brazil
1.75%
Canada
1.75%
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16. Bjorn!

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@xobjornxo
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Followers
5.1k
Fake followers
-
Engagement rate
1.23%
Average Reel plays
-
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17. Jasmine • Productivity Queen

United States

Always in my stories: Sharing My Life & Tips for Living Smarter #productivityqueen 💫#workingmoms 🤱🏾#lifestyle ☕ #coffee 📍 HTX-ish

@jasminehasclout
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Followers
8.8k
Fake followers
28.18%
Engagement rate
1.31%
Average Reel plays
1.7k
Audience gender
female
63.15%
male
36.85%
Top performing Reels
  1. To think, we found this home that we are currently in within a 4-day #houseshopping trip to #Houston - I'm still in awe that this is #ourhome and though these photos are from July, its only after moving in this month that, it finally seems real. 🏡 Thank you to our fabulous realtor @tieratherealtor for helping us with this crazy challenge and #Transition. I'm amazed we were able to customize our home despite it being almost complete! 🔨 Thank you to my husband for working tirelessly, behind the scenes for yearssss without recognition or handouts to make our dreams come true. #hardwork pays off always 💥 Last but not least, Thanks you to the homie, #God, for ordering our steps and always providing. Once we focused our efforts on him everything literally feel into place #trustGod but also #serendipity 💫 Now all we need is our baby girl here with us and this year will be our best year yet! Side note: Did you spot baby girls name in this video? 😏 🥰 #jesusismyhomeboy #htx #houstonhomes #perryhomes #realestate #babygirl #girlname #momof2 #pregnantandnesting #pregnant #newhome #dreamhome #newchapter #newconstruction #customhome
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  2. I've been packing up our 5 bedroom house in preparation for our #movetotexas while my husband is out of town for work with my main help being the elderly grandparents who are damn elderly all while playing single mom to baby Jhett AND being 6.5 months #pregnant at an #advancedmaternalage. Whew child! Since we're #complaining, my back hurting, my bra too tight, my #booty shaking from left to right... The last week my friends have come to help as much as they could and that helped, but these last 3 days until we #moveout the house are dragging me down. I should have skipped a few of those summer sales & paid extra for #professionalpackers. Excited to be reunited with my lover today & lay down while he finishes everything else. ☻️🤡🙃🥰 #toxictrait #sendhelp #wearemovimg #thehouseissold #byebitches #newchapter #newchapterloading #byeAtlanta #hellohouston #htxmom #htownblogger #houstonblogger #home
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  3. It's #GenderReveal Time 💙💟💙💟 Being that I'm #advancedmaternalage we have know the sex of #babymeeks2 since I was #10weekspregnant !! Wild right?! As you can see I was really surprised, Meeks really had me convinced that he knew the sex of the baby Well, we are #32weekspregnant now & finally ready to share. Actually, let's be honest, at this point with my #pregnancybrain I can't remember who I told, who my mom told, who #husbae told and who accidentally told 😂 We are beyond excited for this new blessing and it's safe to say the second time around we feel more prepared. What we AREN'T prepared for is #babyjhett turning TWO this week! More on that later... #Shoutout to @dearestdecor for this super cute gender reveal she created for us because I'm lazy. #aintnosecrets #aintnosurprises #milfgang #blackmoms #twoundertwo #imjoiningtheclub #boyorgirl #babyMeeks #ourfamilyisgrowing
    4 727
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Audience location by country
United States
79.32%
Nigeria
1.98%
United Kingdom
1.87%
Canada
1.31%
South Africa
1.07%
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18. Thomas Frank

United States

Video creator focused on productivity, learning, and Notion. Trying to become more capable every day. 👇Newest video, Notion templates, and more:

@tomfrankly
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Followers
102.8k
Fake followers
19.66%
Engagement rate
2.65%
Average Reel plays
49.7k
Audience gender
female
40.11%
male
59.89%
Top performing Reels
  1. Y’all have been asking me for a new Study With Me video - well, how about a Study With Us? - If you need to get some work done today, join me, @mattdavella, @joeyschweitzer, @saradietschy, @nathanieldrew_, @nrajapandey, @patflynn, @upndatom, @aliabdaal, @civilstudioss, @reneritchie, and more for a 25-minute work session. - Link’s in my bio!
    9 300
  2. Happy 2019! To start the year off right, I’ve finally launched my first full-length course! - It’s called Productivity Masterclass: Create a Custom System That Works, and it’s all about how to build a PROPER productivity system - the combination of a task manager, calendar, note-taking system, file organization method (both digital and physical), and email processing system. - In addition, the course covers how I use a couple important meta-skills to keep the system well-organized over the long term. - Overall, the goal of this course is to help you build a system that ensures you’re always on top of what you need to accomplish, and that makes sure nothing ever slips through the cracks. - The course is up on @skillshare now, and you can take it for FREE by clicking the link in my bio. - Hope you enjoy it! - #productivity #todo #2019 #newyear #organization #focused
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  3. Good dudes, good conversation.
    8 980
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Audience location by country
United States
26.27%
Brazil
6.16%
India
5.25%
United Kingdom
4.62%
Russia
4.54%
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19. 𝙉𝙄𝙏𝘼 𝙋𝘼𝙏𝙏𝙀𝙍𝙎𝙊𝙉

United States

📒 𝙋𝙡𝙖𝙣𝙣𝙚𝙧 𝙀𝙣𝙩𝙝𝙪𝙨𝙞𝙖𝙨𝙩 💍𝙒𝙞𝙛𝙚 + 𝙈𝙤𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧 👼🏾👧🏽 + 𝘽𝙚𝙡𝙞𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧 🙌🏾 @michaelsstores Increase Productivity w/ your planner Class Sign Up 👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾

@neatlyplanned
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Followers
21.7k
Fake followers
22.67%
Engagement rate
1.35%
Average Reel plays
-
Audience gender
female
97.51%
male
2.49%
Top performing Reels
  1. Merry Christmas from The Patterson’s 🎄 📸 @laurenrollerphotography . . . #merrychristmas #blacklove #familyphotography #neatlyplanned #family #locs #blessed #blackfamily #inspiration #home #mylife #mylove
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  2. Today we celebrated our daughter’s Gianna’s first birthday in true mermaid style 🧜🏽‍♀️Gianna has brought so much JOY into our lives and for that I’m forever grateful. . . Gianna also share her birthday with my grandmother. She was born last year on her 80th birthday and she was here during delivery cheering me on. She calls Gianna her “birthday baby” . . 7/11 is a special day because it was also the original due date for our son Christopher. This special date ties all three of them together and it makes my heart smile. Check out my stories if you want to see some of the party. . . . #momlife #party #birthdaygirl #mermaid #blogger #target #happybirthday #babygirl #mom #partyplanner
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  3. Daily Reminder 🖤 When I find myself frustrated, tired, or needing advice the first place I run to is GOD’s word. There is always a passage that can speak to whatever I’m experiencing. I’m thankful that I can find peace and rest in his word. . . . . For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11 🖤 . . . . @the_happy_planner #thehappyplanner #planahappylife #planner #iamahappyplanner #embracethedisc #plannerbabe #planahappylife #plannercommunity #livecreatively #crafty #stickers #washi #happyplanner #papercrafting #pens #YouTube #neatlyplanned #fashion #ootd #momlife #faith #faithoverfear
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Engagement rate benchmark
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Audience location by country
United States
86.01%
Canada
2.86%
United Kingdom
1.54%
Brazil
0.84%
Australia
0.82%
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20. Productivity Coach - Mackenzie

United States

I help professionals master time + energy to LIVE a work-life balance.🚀

@the.productivity.coach
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Followers
5.4k
Fake followers
13.97%
Engagement rate
5.52%
Average Reel plays
14.6k
Audience gender
female
82.17%
male
17.83%
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  1. I love telling our story. ⁣ I am BEYOND excited that I’ll get to tell it FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE. ⁣ ⁣ I’m not crying, you’re crying. ⁣ ⁣ more soon. Just wanted to SCREAM FROM THE ROOFTOPS that ⁣ ⁣ I⁣ GET⁣ TO⁣ MARRY⁣ MY ⁣ BIGGEST⁣ LOVE,⁣ my⁣ SOULMATE,⁣ my⁣ BEST FRIEND,⁣ my ⁣ BIGGEST ADVENTURE,⁣ and I’m freaking pumped. ⁣ ⁣ Dude. We’re engaged. 💍🙋🏼‍♀️🍾🤘🏼⁣ I love you B I G 💖⁣ ⁣ ⁣
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  2. Hi. It’s been 9 months since I’ve posted on here. And this week, a talented poet wrote me a poem that was so moving that it me gave me the strength to write this. ⁣ ⁣ To make an extremely long story short, within a span of 3 weeks - I lost my fourth pregnancy, had surgery, turned 29, and then experienced a deep, sudden emotional trauma that unexpectedly left me with needing to leave my marriage. ⁣ ⁣ My grief is compounded. ⁣ ⁣ While I’m breathing, I am far from being ok. Far from being healed. ⁣ ⁣ And for a while, living just took so much out of me. ⁣ ⁣ But what I am is healing. ⁣ ⁣ Surfing the tsunami. ⁣ ⁣ Pulling myself up from absolute loss & nothingness into a new life, new home, new personhood, new future. New everything. By myself. ⁣ ⁣ The hibernation is still on going. And I’ll allow it as long as it needs. ⁣ ⁣ Because I need me more than anything. ⁣ ⁣ I’m finally feeling somewhat on the other side of the flash bang of those 3 weeks even though that was months ago. ⁣ Because it’s jarring to have my future & marriage fall apart so suddenly because of things I cannot control. ⁣ ⁣ The biggest things I’m learning:⁣ - I have no idea how to handle big life stuff like no longer being a step-mom to a child I love and adore. And that it’s ok not to know. All I can do is to keep loving her as much as I can. Especially if she doesn’t know or understand the reasons why I had to leave. ⁣ - You don’t know what you’re made of until you really need yourself. ⁣ - It takes women on average 7 times to leave an abusive relationship. It took me 5. I am now apart of that statistic. Surrendering to that. ⁣ - You don’t know until you know. Don’t judge yourself for not knowing before.⁣ ⁣ To my friends who’ve reached out in the months, thank you. I miss you. I did not have the energy to reply. I deeply appreciate your grace. I’m slowly coming to and will reach out soon. Because you deserve that. I don’t want to be so blinded in my own pain that I can’t see yours. ⁣ ⁣ As for productivity - I’ll be back eventually. Not sure when that will be, because to hold space for others’ mental health, I need to nurture mine and I’m not quite there. ⁣ ⁣ That’s all for now. ⁣Loving you.
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  3. And in other news…WE GOT MARRIED!⁣ ⁣ And y’all, it was B L I S S F U L.⁣ ⁣ Where do I even start. ⁣ ⁣ Technically, you can call this an elopement. It was quiet and we ARE having a big ‘wedding’ party this fall. You will get your invite!⁣ ⁣ And it was a Monday. I love Mondays even more now.⁣ ⁣ March 9th, 2019, I went to a concert with a yoga student who wanted to spend time with me because he appreciated my energy.⁣ ⁣ Turns out he was asking me out. 😜⁣ ⁣ And by the third song, I was madly in love with this amazing man. A week later, our second date (St Patty’s Day), he told me “I think it’s only fair to tell you that I am totally falling in love with you”.⁣ ⁣ Talk about a week that changes your life. ⁣ ⁣ That week was one of those times.⁣ And every week in this relationship since.⁣ ⁣ I have learned SO much about myself as a woman, a partner, a friend, a leader, and a mother. ⁣ ⁣ All because of this amazing partnership and the safe, secure, and expansive BIG LOVE that we’ve created.⁣ ⁣ More on the weekend…⁣ ⁣ The vision - a weekend vacation in Sedona all sleeping in a big AirBnB spending time and making memories together. Families becoming closer. Laughter becoming sweeter.⁣ ⁣ Our ceremony - We told our love story the night before and had @hope_champion literally champion our ceremony. We had our family share their stories of who were were as humans, adding to how our story came together. Knowing that wherever we are in the world, ‘I am because you are’. Then we exchanged vows with each other (and with lil’ Mak). ⁣ ⁣ Writing this brings happy tears to my eyes because I am LIVING the biggest love story I know. ⁣ ⁣ AND THIS IS MY HUSBAND Y’ALL!⁣ ⁣ BIG LOVE is real.⁣ It’s worth it.⁣ And the secret?⁣ Make the decision to live in it NOW❤️
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